Rolling With Respect: Essential Online TTRPG Etiquette

Whether you're slaying dragons, negotiating with dubious tavern keepers, or attempting to sneak past a patrolling goblin, one universal truth in online tabletop roleplaying games (TTRPGs) is clear: manners matter. Playing online presents unique challenges—such as muted microphones, lagging video, and avatars that may not fully express your charm—but practicing good etiquette can significantly enhance the difference between an epic session and a chaotic experience.

Here’s a guide to keeping your gaming experience fun, fair, and friendly.

1. 🗣 Share the Spotlight

In online tabletop role-playing games (TTRPGs), it can be tempting to dominate the conversation or interrupt others during dramatic moments, like rolling for an attack. Resist this urge. Allow each player their moment to shine. A helpful tip is to jot down your thoughts when you're excited and wait for a pause in the conversation—this way, everyone feels included.

2. 🎤 Use Your Mic Wisely

Background noise can be a significant distraction. Keep your microphone muted when you’re not speaking. Accidentally narrating your dog’s bark battle is not a free action. Just remember to unmute when it's your turn.

3. 🧙 Respect the GM

The GM is managing multiple storylines, rolling dice, and a Mountain Dew that is plotting a keyboard wipeout. It is important to listen to them, follow their cues, and refrain from questioning their rulings during the scene. If you have any concerns, save rules debates for after the session.

4. 🙈 Avoid Meta-Gaming

If your character is not aware of certain information, you shouldn't be either. It's easy to be tempted by maps or chat logs that your character wouldn't have access to, but it is important to refrain from using out-of-character knowledge to influence your decisions. Allowing your knowledge to affect gameplay can diminish the suspense and enjoyment of the game. Keep the mystery alive!

5. 💬 Do Not Crash Game Chats

Do not join game chats without permission or pressure other players to include you in their games. Always ask the Game Master (GM) first if you would like to participate in a session. Forcing your way in or constantly messaging others about joining can create tension and distract from the fun.

6. 📜 Keep Chat Useful

Text chat can be very useful for clarifications, but it can also become a distraction. Save memes for breaks or engaging in off-topic conversations during critical story moments. A well-placed reaction emoji is great, but five pages of GIFs while the party is facing a lich? Not so much.

7. ⏳ Be Patient With Tech

Lag happens. Glitches happen. Online tabletop role-playing games (TTRPGs) can experience delays due to connection issues or platform limitations. Be patient if someone's dice roll takes a moment to register or if the Game Master (GM) takes a few extra seconds to adjust the map. Be gracious.

8. 🎉 Celebrate Others

Cheer on big rolls and clever ideas. The story is better when everyone gets a win. When another player achieves a critical hit or performs a clever maneuver, celebrate their success instead of overshadowing it. Remember, the game is not a competition; it is a collaborative story. A round of applause or a virtual high-five can make a significant difference.

9. 🖥 Check Your Tech

Stable mic, camera, and internet keep the whole party from teleporting into the void. Before the session begins, ensure that your video, audio, and internet connection are stable. Nothing disrupts immersion like a player who keeps disconnecting from the video call or, worse, a character that randomly walks away in the middle of a battle.

10. 🤝 Be Inclusive

Make the table welcoming.

Tabletop role-playing games (TTRPGs) thrive on diverse storytelling. Encourage players from all backgrounds to participate. Avoid jokes or comments that could make anyone uncomfortable. Fantasy worlds are big enough for everyone to be a hero.

11. 🎲 Have Fun

Remember the reason you are there: adventure, creativity, and camaraderie. A positive attitude is contagious and can transform even a challenging session into a memorable experience.

Online tabletop role-playing games (TTRPGs) thrive on collaboration and shared enjoyment. Practicing good manners enriches the experience for everyone—whether it’s your party’s bard or your game master (GM). Roll the dice with respect and communicate thoughtfully. Embrace camaraderie for unforgettable sessions!